School has started but my kids were still in their pajamas while I was trying to decide if I should start our lessons this week or next week. Later that day, we decided to go for a swim to enjoy the last days of summer. Technically, summer has ended for most kids in public and private schools but for us it’s so much fun to visit places where its less crowded and we took advantage of it.
We have been homeschooling since the kids were in Kindergarten and I think I will have a hard time giving up this lifestyle because of its advantages. Let me count them.
1. Homeschooling gives you flexibility.
As a parent, I have the responsibility to give my kids a good education but as a teacher I set the pace. When friends and relatives visit us, we can easily adjust the kids’ academic schedule so we can spend time with our visitors. Travel plans will not be a problem since we will accordingly adjust the lessons before or after the trip. When my in-laws visited us for a week, I simply doubled up the lessons weeks before their arrival so we don’t have to worry about not completing the curriculum for the year. Who says my kids are lazy? They are actually used to doing double lessons a day and meeting deadlines. You work hard, you play hard. When I had a baby, I home schooled according to my due date. The kids were done with their school before I gave birth- that was March. I made sure I won’t get stressed after my delivery just because I need to homeschool.
2. Homeschooling is a great way to mold your child’s character.
Since you see your child the whole time she/he is in class, you can easily correct any attitude. For us, I can easily correct them on how they treat their siblings and not go into an argument over a pencil! They need to be kind first to their sibling before their friends. I am with them almost 24/7. Every child has a different personality and I always emphasize the importance of being the same person inside and outside the home.
3. Homeschooling assures comprehension and learning.
Learning at home is a one-to-one scenario, this means I can tell if my kids understood the lesson. I don’t have any worries on how to explain the lessons because I have my teacher’s manual. I also have the option to use a DVD version of the lessons. Kids can ask me all the questions they have and really understand the subject.
4. Homeschooling does not restrict socialization.
I send my kids to a tutorial once a week. This year they will go twice a week. A tutorial is a homeschool supplement where the whole-day program functions like a school. The kids get to do science experiments, art, creative writing, p.e., and more in a classroom setting of 10-20 kids. When they are not in tutorials, they have extra curricular activities that involves a group. At church, my kids are involve in our youth group where they connect with friends. Yes, they do have a social life.
5. Homeschooling is economical.
Definitely, homeschooling is way cheaper than sending your kid to a private school.
6. Homeschooling saves us from the daily morning rush.
We do experience the morning rush when kids go to their tutorials but only once or twice a week. That is such a big relief for all of us.
My husband and I were not home schooled. It was a leap of faith for us when we started to homeschool the kids and I thank God for our set up now. Homeschooling indeed is a privilege.